Like A Virgin

So if you couldn’t tell by my title, I’m going to be talking about virgins.  Actually I'm just going to talk about one virgin.  Me.  Yes I am a virgin (you would know that if you read my bio ; D).

Now before I really get into it, I feel like I need to do some embarrassing truth telling. 

I’ve never been kissed. 

That is how much of a virgin I am.  I mean the closest thing I’ve seen to a guy’s junk are those diagrams they show you in middle school health class.  You know the one’s I’m talking about.  The kind of diagram that was the closest you could get to being a picture of a stick man, while still being able to be called a diagram (and I’m using the word diagram very loosely).

So how is it that a woman in her early twenties hasn’t even had her first kiss yet?  I have no freaking clue!  For goodness sakes I should have accidently kissed a guy by now. For now I guess I’ll just have to chalk it up to pure and unadulterated talent.

You’re probably asking what my point is (other than giving y’all waaaay too much personal information lol).

Well, being a virgin who thinks about sex more often than many teenage boys do, I really want to know how guys react when they find out a girl is a virgin.  Because at some point I’m going to have to saying something about it to a guy.

So while talking to my friend Autumn the other day she told me that she had encountered a couple of different reactions when she told guys.

v  Some like to emphasis how gentle they’ll be.

v  Some see it as a challenge.  “As in hey I bet I’m the one who can get in your pants”.

And to be honest I’m not sure I really like either of those reactions, or I guess I shouldn’t like either of those reactions. 

While I would appreciate some gentility my first time, since I’ve been told it hurts for girls.  As soon as that’s over with and I’m more comfortable I would like to move on to something else….like crazy animal sex.  Yeah I said it.  That’s why, I’m sure, I’m turned on by that second reaction.  I mean the idea of being pursued is sexy.  But like Autumn pointed out guys who think of your virginity that way are just players and should be avoided.  And I know she’s right.  Dang it. 

So now I have a question for you ladies.  How have guys, or a guy, reacted when you told them you were virgin?  And for any of my male readers, what is your reaction when a girl tells you she’s a virgin?

And if y’all don’t get the reference in my title here is the video to Madonna’s song Like A Virgin:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgkOCJ9PGkk&ob=av2n

I actually hate this song it’s just an awesome reference haha