I have a dream.......No really ladies I did have a dream and it involved a guy. And I'm not talking about the kind of dream I'm sure you’re thinking of (even though I would welcome that kind). The only part of this dream I remember is that I was being held by a man who I knew without a shadow of a doubt loved me unconditionally. And I loved him more than anything else in the world.
Now I know this was just a dream but that doesn’t mean it can’t be a reality. What Junie has never realized is that being in a relationship is not just about being ‘in love’. Yeah love is a gosh darn important part of a lasting relationship but it’s not the only component. A good relationship is an equal partnership between two people. And that’s a concept Junie still doesn’t get.
I am an intelligent, attractive, moderately physically fit, funny, sarcastic, amazing woman who is fyi a good cook too boot. And because I am all of these things I deserve a man who is also intelligent, attractive, funny, sarcastic, and just an all-around amazing man. Now I’ve explained the same thing to Junie a hundred times but because she doesn’t see those qualities in herself she does not look for them in a man.
And ladies that is a mistake! A relationship is not and should never be a dictatorship! And that goes for you too men. Whenever you’re thinking about dating a guy or are already dating a guy, try to remember what kind of guy you deserve.
And as fun as Britney makes them seem let's stay way from the Criminals as well! ; )
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